tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5284852521652600290.post4920756350786440158..comments2023-09-12T16:04:26.589+01:00Comments on Everyday Muslimah: CompletenessEffervescenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18440498288672532076noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5284852521652600290.post-3847862350101890542010-05-09T14:13:42.643+01:002010-05-09T14:13:42.643+01:00loll @ Jelass, 'boy crazy' that was the ol...loll @ Jelass, 'boy crazy' that was the old me haha astaghfirullah. <br />JazakAllah khair.<br /><br />LBB- :D when the rrealization hits you, you regret so much ini, we wasted all that time for ye that bit of amusement or immediate gratification. But alhamdulillah Allah guides whom He wills and once you realize your mistakes its much easier to avoid anything that can lead to them again.<br />xEffervescenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18440498288672532076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5284852521652600290.post-22300728012502972572010-05-09T04:08:54.184+01:002010-05-09T04:08:54.184+01:00Salamaualaikum!!
u just gained a subby because you...Salamaualaikum!!<br />u just gained a subby because you remind me so much of ME!!! i had the same problem and alhumdulilah i realized "what is the point" this stupid pattern and running into more stupid guys and for what? amusement? lol<br /><br />But ur so right about everything u said! we NEVER need another person but we ALWAYS need Allah!Imanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12796650967400308004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5284852521652600290.post-58571083635839129702010-05-07T23:47:55.028+01:002010-05-07T23:47:55.028+01:00Love the post! I am glad you found contentment wit...Love the post! I am glad you found contentment with Allah(swt) and fighting those urges to be boy crazy haha. <br /><br />As for not relying on your partner completely emotionally, this is excellent insight. It is easy to lose yourself in your relationships and forget to have your own life. This post has really inspired me. Keep trekking for the "one" sister. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5284852521652600290.post-24739120780976496252010-05-07T22:05:31.811+01:002010-05-07T22:05:31.811+01:00JazakAllah khair :)
Wow that's good stuff man...JazakAllah khair :)<br /><br />Wow that's good stuff man. Exactly what I want my wedding to be like. (Without all that 'wife of the postman who used to live next door to our previous neighbours' daughter's second husband's mother in law twice removed' stuff lol that made me laugh)<br /><br />And with the- maturing quicker. Most of the youths and the generations that follow, show no initiative. Instead of paving success they wreck their oppurtunities with everything. <br /><br />When I went to the JIMAS conference, one of the speakers- Hesham Al-Awadi talked about youth in the earlier generations and how nowadays people are just losing the will to think! Everyone is governed by the system. <br />I think I'll type up the lecture and share it on here inshaAllah.Effervescenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18440498288672532076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5284852521652600290.post-14942205893790624942010-05-07T17:39:04.946+01:002010-05-07T17:39:04.946+01:00You've definitely hit the nail on the head in ...You've definitely hit the nail on the head in this post. What an excellent read! And I have noticed exactly the same in my local Muslim community. Parents should learn how to teach their children to become mature quickly so that they make good decisions all their life - even when it comes to marriage in later life. <br /><br />Instead, I see parents leaving their kids at the Islamic school or the mosque and expecting the teachers and imams to raise their kids. Then, in later life, the kids have no idea how to make good decisions. And end up in the wrong crowd; and subsequently with the wrong partner.<br /><br />As for what you want in your wedding ceremony, you should just do what you want and leave what you don't want. If you don't want to have a mehndi, don't have one!<br /><br />In our family, my sister and my sister in law didn't change their names when they got married. Neither one had a mehndi. And to top it off, we didn't spend much money on the wedding either. We had 150 guests and we spent just under £300 (in each wedding). How? Our guests didn't include the wife of the postman who used to live next door to our previous neighbours' daughter's second husband's mother in law twice removed. <br /><br />We had a close knit bunch of friends and family come to our house where we served them excellent home-cooked food (none of that mass produced crap they serve at most weddings). Our friends helped prepare everything from gazebo to desserts.<br /><br />You're definitely right on everything you've written on this post! LOVE IT!geetar hirohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03032806416515334268noreply@blogger.com